Hello to all. Hope you had a bless day today. I had the privilege of watching the two football games with my family. The Pittsburgh Steelers did not make it through , but good try. Congrats to Peyton Manning and the Broncos for advancing. This is my father in laws team. So let's see what next week holds for us.
On another note, today I want to talk about motherhood. I might be stepping on a lot of toes but, remember it's an opinion. My opinion. I have not been the best mother or nor do I pretend to have been. However I have always been there for my children. I have never put anything or anyone in front of them. There have been times when I wonder if I can be a mom and do the things that life hits you with but, ask God for help and he will allow you to do what you want. With spare time. I use to have 3 small children and a job and responsibilities at home like any other mom. I am married and was married then. I get criticize at times because I made my marriage work and had my husband here to help with the children but as we all know that most men can be babies themselves so it's like having another child to the pack except this one has much more mouth (lol). I never understood a mother that put's other things or people in front of their children.
When I met my husband, he knew that I had two daughter's. I knew he had a daughter himself. At this point is when you decide if you want to continue this relationship or not. My husband had every right to not want to see me anymore and pursue a relationship with me as I had that right. When you make a commitment to be with a woman with children or accept a man with children, understand that you are making dates with the kid's as well. Why do you feel that after you have chosen to be with her or him that you can chose not to want the children that go along with this package. Now me personally I would have drop the loser because there is nothing more important on this earth than the children you brought to this world. I read a lot and see different things . This youth today is being raise by their grandparents that are too old to really be raising children and therefore they are getting away with murder(not literally). They do and say whatever they want because the parenting is not being done by the original parents but by their grandparent's who should be retiring instead of raising children all over again. I despise mother's like this and to make matters worse you want to know why your child does not want to talk to you when you call. You should have chose the kids and not the man. Your children will always be there in good and bad, but your man will find a new you and when he leaves you because it will happen and you find your kids grown and not wanting anything to do with you don't cry then. It's too late. Always choose your kids. You as a woman are so important in your kids life you just do not even realize it.
Ill be praying for your trouble minds that feel that can not be without a man, and choose them and not their children. Examine your lives and see what is not right about that picture.
God is love.....
