I am at work now. I hate mondays. It feels like the day drags...I have been here since 6 in the morning. So right about now I want to be home. People are just browsing staying out of the cold.
I have big problem today that I want to get off my chest. I think I am going to do a community chat about it on my blogfrog. So dont forget to visit me..
My problem is with men or women who feel they have to make the child feel like a burden just because they have to pay child support. Why as an absent parent do you find the need to talk financial support with your child and not the custodial parent? I am a very understanding parent, I know that people have bills and all that, but no one told you to have kids that you can not support. My two daughters were from a previous marriage and there father decided to remarry and have more kids. Then he got divorce and had more kids from another girl. So why should my children that were born first have to wait until they are 21 and 19 to see a few dollars here and there from there father. No one told him to quit paying child support and run to another state. I guess he thought the debt will disappear like him.....lol wrong
Thats the beauty about the child support office. They will find you. I hope none of you have to deal with this and I can help but feel bad about my mistake for not choosing a better father for my children. Now for the rest of their lives they have to feel like a burden. I hope they now I love them and truly that is what matters. I found a good man that help me with them. He provided and was their daddy. I know it bothers my girls to know that their father really did not care for them. I just pray that they heal in time.....
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